How I Became Grown-ish II

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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at FIU chapter.

As I reflect on my college journey, I realize just how much I’ve evolved—learning to embrace resilience while pursuing my passions. Two years ago, I was writing from a place of aspiration, hoping to find my footing in “How I Became Grown-ish.” Today, I can confidently say I am living my purpose. This marks the beginning of my story—a two-part series of growth and discovery.

Throughout my college experience, I’ve come to understand that resilience isn’t just about bouncing back from setbacks, it’s about growing through them. Each failed relationship has imparted invaluable lessons about love and boundaries. These experiences pushed me to confront my identity, allowing me to redefine who I am. I’ve learned that it’s okay to stumble, to question, and to seek clarity along the way.

In this journey, quality time with my family and friends has become sacred. Genuine connections ground me, offering love and support as I navigate life’s challenges. Those late-night conversations and shared laughter have become lifelines, reminding me to cherish the present. This newfound focus on relationships has shifted my perspective, revealing that life’s richness truly lies in shared experiences.

Change, which once felt daunting, has transformed into a welcomed companion. I’ve opened my mind to new ideas, embracing discomfort as a catalyst for growth. With faith as my foundation, I’ve learned not to fear failure; instead, I see it as an opportunity to learn and evolve. My faith reassures me that each stumble is a stepping stone, guiding me closer to my true self.

In this ongoing journey of self-discovery, I’ve recognized the importance of acknowledging my mistakes and striving to be better. Seeking forgiveness has deepened my connections with those I love, reminding me that vulnerability fosters strength. Each lesson has shaped me, helping me emerge stronger and more confident.

As I continue to navigate my college life, I carry these lessons with me, knowing that resilience, faith, and love will always guide my path. I embrace the complexities of my journey, fully aware that each twist and turn contributes to the person I’m becoming. Through every experience, I’m learning to celebrate my growth and embrace the vibrant tapestry of life ahead.