The 9 Best Sex Handcuffs for Couples

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When it comes to spicing up your sex life, who doesn’t love losing or taking control every once in a while? Mixing up the power dynamics (safely!) can be a fun way to experiment with what you like and peek into whole new parts of your sexuality. And if you’re just starting out, investing in a pair of sex cuffs is a great way to round out your sex toy collection.

Before you get to shopping, an obligatory BDSM safety note: It’s important to always be extra attentive and mindful when playing with restraints, including bondage handcuffs. No matter if it’s your first time or you’re an old pro, safety is always a priority. The same goes for comfort level for all partners involved. Make sure everything feels comfortable, especially if you’re playing with sexy handcuffs for the first time, and that you’re mindful of circulation and any pressure being applied to different limbs.

Don’t forget about vocal consent and safe words. Talk about what you do and don’t want to happen while one partner has the reins — even if it’s just a list of “hell yes,” “hell no” and “maybe” activities. Make sure you have a safe word (even a simple stop light system will do!) or a hand signal if one of you isn’t able to talk. And, most importantly, make sure you’re prepared to talk before, during and after (aka aftercare!) to check in on everyone’s feelings.

Now that you feel confident and comfortable with all the safety and consent involved, let’s get to shopping. There’s a variety of sex positions with handcuffs you can try out with any of the cuffs we’ve found below. Take a look and see what might be the best fit for you and your partner(s) — and from there, enjoy some safe and satisfying playtime with these best-of-the-best handcuffs for sex.